An Unfiltered Look into a Hidden World
Amidst Brussels’ reputation for Belgian waffles and EU politics, there exists a dynamic yet largely unseen community of sex workers navigating both autonomy and adversity. This interview delves into the realities of daily life, legal landscapes, and the human stories behind the profession.
Behind the Velvet Curtain: A Day in the Life
"Most people imagine brothels as dark, intimidating spaces," shares Sophie, a 32-year-old Brussels-based sex worker who uses a pseudonym for safety. "But it’s more like a coworking space—we vet clients, have rotating schedules, and wear masks for hygiene."
Sophie describes a typical day: waking at noon, meeting clients through a secure app, and finishing by midnight. She emphasizes the businesslike nature of her work: "I charge €150 for an hour—my rent, health checks, and mental health support are all accounted for."
The Legal Landscape: A Double-Edged Sword
Legalization vs. Stigma
Belgium decriminalized sex work in 2001, requiring mandatory health checks and client anonymity.
- Legal age for sex work: 18+
- Mandatory STI testing every three months
- Advertising brothels allowed, pimping illegal
A Paradox of Progress
Sophie contrasts this with lingering stigma:
"If I’m married, no one believes I work here. My husband doesn’t even know. Society here respects women in medicine or law, but not this."
Safety First: Navigating Risks
Sex workers in Brussels take precautions seriously. Many screen clients via video calls, use encrypted apps for bookings, and meet in "safe houses" monitored by organizations like ABD (Association de Brûrussels, a Belgian group advocating for sex worker rights).
"We carry condoms, but also a quiet phone to call for help if needed," Sophie explains. "The city’s laws protect us, but trust is earned—even with regulars."
Societal Shifts and Tomorrow’s Uncertainty
Despite legal protections, debates rage about Belgium’s approach. Some NGOs push for full decriminalization, while others worry about exploitation in marginalized communities. For Sophie, the future remains hesitant:
"I’ve paid taxes for 10 years. Why can’t I get better healthcare? This isn’t charity—it’s work, like any other."
Breaking Stereotypes, Building Bridges
Local initiatives are challenging misconceptions. Café de Réunion Brürussels, a worker-run collective, offers resume-building workshops, aiming to pivot careers beyond the industry. Yet Sophie remains pragmatic:
"I’m not here to judge—my rent’s due next week. But if you want to change things, talk to us. We know what’s real."
With Gratitude and Guarded Hearts
When asked how to best support sex workers, Sophie is direct:
"Don’t make us invisible. If you see a red-light district ad, don’t stare—we’re here, human, just like you."
Her closing words echo the resilience of a community often misunderstood: "We work hard to survive. Respect that."